Turn Bad Boy into a Good Boyfriend

This article is about a fascinating topic that most of you—if not all of you—are aware of.

The person in question is the bad guy.

An ” bad guy” can be any size or shape, but he irritates you much by making you feel like the only woman around while REFUSING to be the steadfast, gave “type” no matter how perfect a match you may be for him.

Moreover, it just so happens that a ” bad guy” isn’t the stereotypical man in a calfskin jacket with a swagger and the face of a made-model.

He exudes an intense energy that makes your stomach turn, and he seems to bring out a powerful, feeling-filled aspect of you.

When you even so much as brush your fingers on his chest, your heart starts racing like crazy.

He gives me energy.

He is not restrained.

He’s a bad young man.

In addition, He is terrible for you.

Let’s face it, bad young guys are unable to submit.

They lack loyalty.

They can be enigmatic about certain aspects of their existence, are relationally repressed, and are players.

They are unaware of the true requirements for a good sweetheart. Despite this, they are enthusiastic and a whole lot of fun.

Here is a “reality bomb” that will guarantee you find love and save you from wasting weeks, months, or even years of your life with a “awful guy.”

No matter how many times you’ve fallen victim to this kind of person…

No matter how inspiring he makes your life,

Or, alternatively, the degree to which you CONSIDER that “yet I can be the unusual lady who makes him need to change and be better”…

This is the information you MUST have.

Truth Bomb: You have to give him the one thing that NO WOMAN has ever given a man before.

I was once in a relationship with a man who always withdrew the day after he first opened up to me (this was more than a decade ago, before I knew how any of this really worked with men).

We’d have a heartfelt dinner, followed by intense sex, and then he’d want to tell me something new about his life.

It seemed like great timing.

The day after that or a few days after, he would pull a dropping out act on me.

He would completely ghost me.

I became more concerned as he continued to ignore my calls and messages, and I made additional efforts to figure out what was wrong.

My confusion was complete and total.

 

We would have this incredibly special connection, as if we were the ideal couple, and then I would be abruptly cut off.

He reappeared with flowers and apologized for his lack of responsibility a half-month later.

Additionally, the agonizing cycle would start all over again.

It was a vicious cycle: the further he moved away from me, the more I compelled him to talk about “what the problem is,” and the more he lost his cool at losing his chance to succeed.

I finally realized that it might be as simple as showing him that I was completely okay with him needing space.

He finally stopped ‘ghosting’ me from his life after realizing that I wasn’t there to take advantage of his ‘chance’ and secure him.

Give him all the space he needs in the relationship to do his very own thing, and he’ll feel less and more at ease, because so many married women are conscious.

When you give a man a chance, you stop giving him cause to believe that his ability—or, more specifically, his masculinity—is being undercut.

The woman I represented Stephanie did this to a man she was dating.

He had just lately admitted to her that he wasn’t the ‘sweetheart’ type (in a cool, brutally honest manner).

She used what I refer to as the expectation approach, and it functions as follows:

Focus on becoming the wild, unfettered you that he will fight like hellfire to tame rather than doing your best to transform the bad boy into lover material (or generally manageable him).

In the end, you need to get rid of the BULL by giving him a simple explanation that will push him toward the wall—something he’s never gotten from a lady.

… considering that he no longer just “likes” you.

He is mesmerized.

He is caught.

He wants to know everything there is to know about you.

I taught my client Stephanie how to use this technique after she convinced a notoriously bad boy who had never committed to a woman to revere her from head to toe, throw away his tiny dark book, and swear off a real life of partying, irregular hookups, and his introverted way of conducting himself FOR HER.

Here’s how you go about doing it: I’ve loved being here with you, but I have plans and I don’t care for keeping people waiting.

Cut him off as you’re enjoying a fun, flirtatious (or even profound and serious) conversation.

Smiling, walk away.

He need not be aware of your destination.

What makes a difference is that you remember a little bit of information (such who you’re with and when you’ll be returning), which will make him want YOU excessively and in a mild frenzy.

Permit him to have just a little uncertainty about what you stand for. His obsessive nature will drive him nuts while he waits to see you again.

Good work! I want you to put your knowledge of how to use anticipation to pique any man’s desire into action this week.